Why do guys on dating apps often just first message "hey" or "hey how are you" instead of being more creative and unique? How do they think being a copycat will stand out?
Last Updated: 18.06.2025 07:58

If a hot girl pays attention to me it doesn't really matter what she says. Her attention is enough.
If she is not creative in her messages, no guy would care either.
That's not an interview for a stand-up artist.
Why do I sweat so much after applying moisture or sun screen on my face? I have normal skin.
BTW all the girls start their messages with a similar simple greeting.
Because it's a standard phrase to start communication.
No country for ugly people…
Have you ever heard of the god Priapus being the same as the god Phosphorus?
Of course, farther on when you start chatting moreover dating being smart and creative will really impress, but only as a SUPPLEMENT to attractive look.
It's one of the reason why pickup trainings suck.
People choose a partner by sexual attractiveness in the first place.